At this point in my life, I enter into relationships that are expected to be life long. I enjoy giving my love to one person, I enjoy no longer saying what am "I" gonna eat for dinner, but what are "we" gonna eat for dinner. I enjoy leaving little post it notes that say I love you. I enjoy calling just to say hi and hear ya voice. Do you understand the value in that? People would kill for someone like that but sometimes the best thing could be right in front of you, and you don't even know it. When the relationship is real, it will be tested. Tested hard. But don't sway. Stay strong. Hold ya ground and remove anything potential dangerous. You deserve to be happy. But be ready to do whatever you can to make the other person happy. It isn't always a gift that does it, but a simple "I thought about you a lot today" or "thank you for being who you are" or "I'm happy to be with you". Random acts of kindness and affection carry the most impact. Thank about it. Don't be left singing the shoulda, coulda, wouldas.
