All healthy relationships are built on a strong foundation. But foundation doesn't always mean time. A strong foundation can be set in a few days, weeks or months. What matters is the foundation in your own values and morals. The question of when to make a relationship official is one that is scary but something to look forward too. Like a marriage proposal. Those seeking meaningful and serious companionship enjoy the company of the other person, love hearing about their day, feel a certain way when they are sick or down. Those are the triggers to signify a strong foundation is set and it can handle the big ask.
When you are ready to ask, you should already know what the answer will be. Make it special. Make it memorable. Make it something that will guarantee and smile. Happiness is the goal right? I know it was for me. And when it is over, you will feel this sense of joy. That's ok. Live in it. Now...be ready to be in a big boy relationship. It is worth it. Trust me.
