When you think about the roles in a relationship, it is the job of all to make your partner smile and happy when they are down. But one thing that is always in the back of everyone's mind is, is there someone else making you happier? When we are down, we need to find those things that helps us change our attitude and mood. One would think it's spending time with your boyfriend. But when it's not, what does that mean? It's a real question. Boyfriends who are truly committed to your happiness will understand what you need to be happy. If that's time with a close friend or family member, they will understand. But when that person is someone who you have sexual history with, just understand it may take some time to adjust and get use too. Be easy. Have some understanding. Allow them time to vent, feel and not every comment is a fight or picking a fight. Speaking sometimes helps us process our thoughts. Just reassure him that he is the one you want. The one you love. The one that is the priority. Then all should be good.
