In relationships of substance, tests will present themselves. Embrace it for what it is no matter how difficult the conversation. When we are pushed to our limits, we grow as a person and as a couple, a unit. No one learned anything new doing the same thing over and over again. During the trying times, it is so important to remember we are people with feelings so please be careful with what words you choose. Also keep an open mind, self reflect on what you did to get us here, and say I'm sorry, especially if the person you care about is genuinely hurt because that can't be the reaction you were going for. Once the conversation is over, so something to make Yall laugh and spend some quality time together. But the phones down. Close the door. Look at each other and just tell each other why you fell for them in the first place.