Has someone ever asked you what the definition of cheating is??? Does it have to be physical?? Well....hell no.
Let's keep it real. You are guilty of emotional cheating if the following applies.
1. You find yourself sending a "Good Morning Love" message to more than one person every day.
2. You are deleting messages from your phone to avoid someone finding them.
3. You place your phone on the table with the screen facing down so a certain someone won't see it.
4. You don't want to invite your bae to an event because either the other one will be there, or you want to invite them instead.
Emotional cheating is a classic sign of someone who doesn't have the ability or desire to commit. You can not expect to get a fulfilling relationship if you can't be truthful with yourself.
If you are dating, you MUST be clear if you are dating one person at a time, and if there is a front runner. Give the other person the opportunity to stay or go. But for heavens sake don't try to cover it up, because when it all crumbles, it won't be pretty.
Weak people will say, "well I never said we were dating exclusively". Boy/Girl bye....you shouldn't have to say it. And the worst thing about it all is the ones who usually get hurt, are the good ones, the one yo ass ain't deserve to begin with.
There is nothing wrong with meeting people. In gay life, it happens all the time. I can remember a time I met someone new every day of the week. But I never take it to another level with the name "bae", "beautiful", "handsome" unless the conversation has been had about what this is. If you can't have that conversation, sit yo weak ass home and watch Lifetime.
Stay tuned for the next topic, "Know what you want, and your value".
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