We all have that inner voice, gut feeling, and sixth sense that tells us when something just isn't right. That is the same with our interactions with people. Example...you meet someone that you kinda like but early on in the interactions there are some red flags. Some may be manageable and some a little more significant. But, you ignore them and go through the motions of building a relationship, and then....it crumbles and you are surprised. In all of my failed relationships, either friendships or romantic, I can give very clear examples at how early on something just didn't sit well. If I chose to let it fester, I have no one else to blame but myself for the failure.
But....Ladies and Gentlemen...But....when you find that one...you will know. If every single interaction with this person is bliss, and you are struggling to find one remotely negative thing to say about that person, do not let them go. Fight....fight hard to keep them in your life. Trust me you both will learn and grow into a unit that will be so solid even a bomb from ISIS will not break it. It's like a tree that early on in the growing stage connects with another. By the time that tree is fully grown, the largest chainsaw won't cut it.
This is not to say the relationship won't be tested. But it is all about how you manage the conflict. You must always lead with respect, trust and love. Saying I'm sorry is never too much to ask and be sure to listen to understand. Remember you both love each other and want to quickly return to the smiles, giggles, pet names and doing cute things for each other. So let's settle this and move on.
I haven't written in a while because I have found a special someone who literally lit up my world the moment they walked into it. Every moment with, talking too, or just thinking about this person turns my worse day into my best. Honestly I thought I knew what it was like to be in love, but I have been proven wrong. This is it. It can't get any better. All I want for this world is to someday experience what I am feeling right now. It took me to seriously ask myself what I can do to be the best for us. I needed to change my thinking, my patterns, and really work to understand him. I have so much more to learn but the idea that I can learn those things and go through live alongside this person really gives me hero strength. Yes I hear my closest friends say "be careful" but you know what, no one every struck gold being careful. I made this decision, I am proud of it, I am proud of us and who we will become. Now sit back, and watch us build this epic empire.
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